This is a mixture from several cord cutting approaches from different cultures around the world.
If you are a healer, you could cut your own cords…Basically it is seeing the cord and cutting or unhooking it… winding the cord up around the other person and healing the cord wounds for each person… You could use your hand, but I recommend a selenite wand which does the work wonderfully.
The biggest things that I do different than most which seems to stop the cords from reforming are the final steps…
Fill the cord hole with light- whatever color comes to you in the process, white if nothing comes to you, then the body will pick the correct frequency from the white…
Have the person you are working on send love whatever level they can muster to the other person and envision giving them a gift and thank you…
Saying your duty to me is complete, I am free to live on my own or another finishing phrase with outlook phrase if that is necessary… like for parents – thank you for raising me, I can successfully live on my own… Them stating it seven times outloud…
Also I sometimes only limit the negative cords or cords related to a specific argument in the cut by having the person think of the negative things about the person. The cords can be attached anywhere on the body… and the person may feel the cut…
Always warn your person before you do this what the ramifications and side effects are… The person may feel the cord cut and come back immediately – even if you haven’t heard from them for years. Cutting cords on parents and long term folks can cause emtions for the person being cut… (My own mother was convinced we had grown apart the day after the cord cutting that she knew nothing about. She got terribly depressed and I had to reassure her multiple times that I loved her…)
New cords will form if the person chooses… like the ones with my mother, they were stronger adult cords and we became great adult friends. But the key here is, that the person is in control of the cords, the healer can help them remove them, but they need to keep them gone.